It seems as the older we get, the more goals we’re expected to achieve. Why not have faith, be positive and see what happens?
I’m a big believer in The Law of Attraction. Whatever you give out will come back to you.
I read the book The Secret by Rhonda Byrne five years ago and it’s amazing how much putting positivity into your life can make a difference. According to Byrne in 2006, The Law of Attraction is believing everything whether it is positive or negative was attracted to you.
Ladies it’s about knowing exactly what you desire and want. Thinking positive about it, writing/visualizing what you want (this is where the vision board comes in) and letting the universe do the work.
My husband and I did a vision board and it’s amazing how it has worked I’ll put a picture of our vison board below.
My family vision board is done every 3-5 years and I make sure it’s visible for my husband and me to look at every day. This vision board was made within five months of my now-husband meeting one another.
You can easily make this a family activity where you can get old magazines, newspapers, print out items, scissors to start cutting out your wants and desires for the next year, 3, 5, or however long you decide.
- Be specific about what you desire
Being specific allows for you and the universe or God (whatever you believe) to have a clear picture on your desires.
When it’s not clear it can easily turn out to something you don’t want. Now I want to add this when you decide what you want and are feeling empowered by what you want DO NOT DOUBT OR QUESTION YOURSELF.
Yes I know that is easier said than done. Of course I have my moments when I doubt myself but doubting myself is not going to hold me back from what I want to get.
Ladies, don’t feel bad for what you want as long as it’s within reason you have every right to get it. I know sometimes based on past experiences we can easily get down on ourselves and doubt starts kicking in. If I need to discuss this more in another article about how to stop doubting yourself, comment below and let me know.
I’m not talking about simply day dreaming type of visualization. I’m talking about seeing yourself walk towards that new job, act as if you achieved your goals, it’s about seeing it already being yours.
If you want that new business visualize you being in that office running that business. How would act if you achieved your goals? How would your office look?
If it’s a new relationships, imagine yourself walking next to your crush, see yourself touching, kissing, whatever it is that you desire.
When you figure out what you want. Start collecting magazine, pictures, and printed pictures and place them on your vision board.
When I have my vision board, I placed rings on there for engagement, someone happily married on there, I put a child on there playing with his father, The Word Mother, T.D. Jakes, etc… It will be almost three years since I did my vision board and I already accomplished almost half of the things on my vision board.
I attracted those thing to me by putting them up where I can see every day to make sure I remember my goals. When you see your vision board every day you naturally start thinking about them and drawing more positivity for you.
It’s amazing how the items on my vision board played out.
I got engaged 6 months after doing my vision board, I had my son after 10 months of doing this, and another 10 months got married to my amazing husband.
Just this past weekend, I got to check another one off by seeing T.D Jakes.
I’m still in the process of getting the other items checked off but each day I used this visuals to imagine what I want.
- Trust the Universe and Have Faith
This can seem like it’s harder said that done. However, IT CAN BE DONE!
Once you act, speak and think as if your receiving what you want now it can be transforming.
You’re on your way to sending the attraction your way. The tough part seems to be having faith.
To me, all faith is having hope. Hope that you are receiving what you want, Hope that your desires come true.
We have hope everyday if you think about it. We hope that we wake up the next day, we hope everything goes find at work, life is all about hope. God and/or the universe want to give you what you want but you have to be attracting it to you. Hope this helps, ladies.
Have you ever done a vision board? Has it worked for you? Is this something you would want to try? Let me know! Comment below.